Thanks for helping!
@MattIPv4 :: I think you are on to something here. Because sometimes when I visit the sites, like now - they are fine.
But then I check again, and they are broken.
About a year ago, my ubuntu server was going down like clockwork a lot, sometimes several times a say, and at least once every other day.
So I paid someone to write me a cron job that searches for updates and reboots the server. The cron run every 17 minutes which could be a problem.
I am very uneasy with digitalocean because there is no way I should need an update every hour or so, previously there was very little update issues.
Do you have any solution for the database?
I note that the phpmyadmin runs on the ip which is not SSL. So I think this is part of it.
@bontokiz thanks for responding. These are the errors I get. Are you getting these errors now?