Getting a Mysql Database error in debug.log, Server crashes

[14-Sep-2022 16:28:32 UTC] PHP Warning: mysqli_real_connect(): Error while reading greeting packet. PID=501493 in /var/www/yolosand/public/wp-includes/wp-db.php on line 1753 [14-Sep-2022 16:28:32 UTC] PHP Warning: mysqli_real_connect(): (HY000/2006): MySQL server has gone away in /var/www/yolosand/public/wp-includes/wp-db.php on line 1753 [14-Sep-2022 16:28:32 UTC] PHP Warning: mysqli_set_charset(): Error executing query in /var/www/yolosand/public/wp-includes/wp-db.php on line 884 [14-Sep-2022 16:28:36 UTC] PHP Warning: mysqli_real_connect(): (HY000/2002): Connection refused in /var/www/yolosand/public/wp-includes/wp-db.php on line 1753

Everyday the server will go down for 3-5min and then be back up. I have tried adding a swap space but that didnt solve the issue. I use the server as a multisite and have 10 websites on there.

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Hi there,

It sounds like your MySQL server might be crashing due to resource limitations.

I could suggest a couple of things:

  • Follow the steps here on how to tweak your MySQL instance for better performance:

  • Add a bit of extra RAM to the server

  • Add a swap file in case that you don’t have one already:



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September 15, 2022

Hello @sandyturquoiseanchor

Can you confirm if MySQL goes down and then you need to manually restart it or does the issue auto-resolves?

You can examine the logs and check if the droplet is running out of memory due to the MySQL activity.


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