First, I am sorry if this is basic question but, i am struggle with this for days.

The problem is every time i do git push (clone) to fakhrul@ipdaresss:/home/fakhrul/proj.git (or any git repo) i will get error

FATAL ERROR: Network error: Connection refused
fatal: Could not read from remote repository.

Please make sure you have the correct access rights
and the repository exists.

I already did lot of research and try every tutorial, but the problem still there. So, i think maybe i did miss something basic. For this, i hope you can answer as talking to really beginner.

What i use? i use Git Bash in Windows, so basically everything is simillar to linux

What i already done i have a user (fakhrul) with sudo access with functional ssh key i can ssh fakhrul@ipadress i done initial setup (firewall), install LEMP, git i successfully create plain laravel project from this tutorial

the only problem is git

Is git is properly install and setup in my local pc and server? git init works in both server and local

What i understand when to use git and what i did? but fail to clone or push

1. create repo in local
   mkdir proj; cd proj ;

create index.html using notepad with “hello world” in it

git init
git add *
git commit -m "first commit"
2. create repo in server with git bare
ssh fakhrul@ipaddress
mkdir proj.git; cd proj.git
git init --bare
exit
3. back in local to push to server

in proj dir

git remote add origin fakhrul@ipadress:/home/fakhrul/proj.git
git push origin master

then i get this

FATAL ERROR: Network error: Connection refused
fatal: Could not read from remote repository.

Please make sure you have the correct access rights
and the repository exists.

• already open git port sudo ufw allow git. but i didnt think this is because i using ssh with git.