I am trying to ssh into my droplet and i keep getting a timeout.

ssh -p 444 [username]@[ipaddress] [password]
ssh: connect to host [ipaddress] port 4444: Operation timed out

I can ping my [ipaddress] fine. and my website is up.

I also can't access the console inside the digital ocean dashboard it is only a black screen. Clicking inside the console doesn't work either.
I just get two errors:
noVNC ready: native WebSockets, canvas rendering
and then finally it says:

Server disconnected (code: 1006)

I have also tripple checked I am using the correct Ip address and port. I have also sshed into my droplet in the past.

any help would be appreciated it.