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Hi @xrjMaker,
It’s totally possible what you are aiming for and I believe if the traffic to your application is huge that it’s a step in the right direction!
Let’s start with your questions.
Private Networking is a really good solution and you’ve correctly decided to turn your attention to it. For more information you can check the docs here -> https://www.digitalocean.com/docs/networking/vpc/ . Additionally, if you don’t want to use the Private Network product, you can achieve everything with a few Firewall rules.
It’s not possible to remove the public IP of your Droplet however if you are going to use it for an SQL instance only, closing all ports to the public should be enough of a security.
There are two possibilities, the first one is using the public IP of your SQL droplet to connect to it. For that to work,you’ll need to allow access from the SQL droplet to the Droplet where your application is being held. The second option would be if you are using Private Networking to use the internal IP addresses you’ll be granted.
I’ve actually stated it at the beginning but yes. Separating your SQL and Application to different droplets does help balancing the load.
Regards, KDSys